In Appreciation of Playfulness and Friends : An Evening of Mah Jongg

Last night found five friends around my old oak table. Four with racks of tiles, one sitting out for the round. All learning to play Mah Jongg. Initiating my new set. But really, it is the comraderie, the comfortable interaction among like minded souls. Friendship is a gift. Playfulness is a joy.

What is American Mah Jongg?  Think of Gin Rummy with tiles, but more. Here is the book I've found that has been most helpful:
A Beginner's guide to American Mah Jongg by Elaine Sandberg (9780804838788).  For more information see also: The National Mah Jongg League

Watching my friend

This one seems possible for her...

how is it that I experience both the joy of possibilities for her

   and at the same time the touch of sadness at the changes that will bring...

not going to judge myself. it just happens...

there is this scar just here >

from when the women leave my world for other things...

I'm older, wiser

but it brings both kinds of tears still...

held private as they must be

Shoulder Bootcamp

One handed typing is a challenge. This past Monday 6/7/2010 I had shoulder surgery. The goal is getting back range of motion and reducing pain. Today I reported for the first day of physical therapy. I have a short window of time to rehab the shoulder to prevent it from locking up again. I'm in Shoulder Bootcamp. I have a schedule of physical rehab activities for home, 3-5 times a day, and a visit to PT 4 days a week. Yes, I get one weekday off. I'm too young to not be able to use my arms if there are other options. I chose Shoulder Bootcamp. 


This is not the first round of physical therapy on this shoulder. However this venue is different. Before I was almost the youngest person in the room. Today the room was full of twenty somethings or younger nursing knees. Note to self: find some decent looking exercise clothing. The bag lady look is SO yesterday.